children of alcoholics

Children of Alcoholics and Addicts: The Forgotten Ones

50,000 deaths in 2014…. This was just reported by the U.S. government. That translates to 136 people dying each day — 5 per hour.

Was our government reporting casualties of the Syrian civil war? Cancer deaths? Deaths on highways? Murders? No. This breathtaking number is the number of deaths due to drugs and alcohol in our country in one year.

Yet where is the outcry? Where is the urgency to stop these preventable deaths (no one has to start using drugs and alcohol)?

While we as a country spend billions providing medical treatment to alcohol and drug users ($36,000,000,000 annually, to be exact), why are we not focusing on preventing our youth from using drugs and alcohol? (In fact, less than 5% of government spending on drugs is in the form of prevention.)

And what about the single most vulnerable group in our society to this epidemic? What about the children of alcoholics and addicts who, at no fault of their own, are up to 20 times more likely to become afflicted with addiction than their peers?

These children are born with a genetic demon waiting to be set loose and ruin their lives, at no fault of their own. Yet can you name more than one or two programs in the United States that attempt to help this group? Why are the most vulnerable left to fight this battle alone? Why are these kids not treated like children with a rare heart condition that must be monitored for life? Certainly such patients would never be ignored. Yet the children of addicts are left alone; the forgotten ones.

Thankfully, there are a few organizations that are beginning to address these issues. They can be found at and

Marc Treitler and his family are the founders and creators of the family addiction education website and the authors and illustrators of My Dad Is an Alcoholic, What About Me?: A Pre-teen Guide to Conquering Addictive Genes.

Learn more about how to talk to your kids about substance abuse at You can also find and connect with the authors on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Google+.

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Marc Treitler

Marc enjoys spending time with his family and their new Yorkie puppy, Coco. He is an executive of a utility company, which keeps him very busy and allows him to travel throughout the country. When Marc isn’t working or on his phone, his hobbies include: embarrassing his wife and kids, convincing his daughter that boys are bad, passing his musical tastes to his son, cleaning-up puppy pee inside the house, and talking politics to anyone that will listen.
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